"The Buddha and the Borderline is a masterpiece."
- Perry Hoffman, Ph.D, President, National Education Alliance for Borderline Personality Disorder
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The Buddha and the Borderline: My Recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder through Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Buddhism and Online Dating
Kiera Van Gelder’s first suicide attempt at the age of twelve marked the onset of her struggles with drug addiction, depression, post-traumatic stress, self-harm, and chaotic romantic relationships—all of which eventually led to doctors’ belated diagnosis of borderline personality disorder twenty years later- a diagnosis so stigmatized it's been called "the leprosy of psychiatric disorders."
Borderline
personality disorder (BPD) affects more than ten million Americans, yet
the disorder is still shrouded in mystery and stigma. Characterized by
unstable moods, self-injury, suicide attempts,
and reckless, impulsive behavior, it was considered "incurable" until
only recently, when effective treatments such as dialectical behavior
therapy have been developed. The Buddha and the Borderline is the first ever memoir to describe the recovery process utilizing these new, cutting edge treatments and Buddhism. Kiera Van Gelder's finely-honed literary
talent offers us a stunning and intimate look into a life-threatening
condition that has been a shameful secret even among those with mental
illness. Now an international advocate and educator, Kiera reveals how the
combination of education, support, treatment, and spirituality taught
her to transform such BPD symptoms as self-destruction, self-hatred, and
anger and to create an extraordinary life.
